The true phoenix

The true Phoenix is the one who is totally and completely free. I even spell the word Phoenix with a capital P because I think it’s as an important word as the word Universe. This mythological creature has been portrayed as a symbol of freedom, the most important virtue in life (in my humble opinion). But who is the true Phoenix?

‘’If everyone did what they wanted to do everyone would feel free. And if you feel free, you feel empowered. And every negative emotion that exists, is because there is some sense of loss of freedom somewhere in there.’’ - Abraham-Hicks.

I mean, that pretty much sums it all up doesn’t it? ‘’Every single negative emotion that exists, is because there is some sense of loss of freedom somewhere in there.’’ ‘’

Really? That’s the reason I’m unhappy?’’

Yes.

Just think about it:

• A lack of money makes you unhappy because you are tied to a job you don’t like and you feel stuck because of it;

• Mental illness makes you unhappy because it feels as if there’s no end to it. It feels as if you are never going to change;

• To never have had a romantic relationship can make you feel lonely, so you feel stuck in your loneliness;

• Comparing yourself to others can make you feel stuck in your life situation and as if everyone is going on with their lives without you;

• Not to mention FOMO these days makes you feel lonely as all hell and as if you will never do fun things.

  And. So. Forth.

Freedom, the Phoenix, is one of the most important feelings to have. It is important to feel free before actually being free. Why do you think my logo has a Phoenix on it? It is one of the key parts of achieving your dream life.

“You can't wait for that healing to feel wholeness. You have to feel wholeness for that healing to occur.” — Joe Dispenza.

I know it’s difficult, ok? Because I am asking you to feel the opposite that you do. I am asking you to go against what feels natural to you. But let me ask you this: why does it feel natural to you? Why shouldn’t the feeling of freedom come natural to you? That is what life was supposed to be! Before all of these weird made-up rules came in to play, governing all of our lives.

These weird made-up rules are the rules of society being forced down your throats. And I don’t mean that you should go run outside naked screaming what you hate about politics. I mean that you should go deep within. Go deep within yourself and figure out what freedom looks like and feels like to you. Ask yourself, what you actually want to do with your life instead of doing what you think you need to do.

And next time, don’t go to that family obligation if you really don’t feel like going, don’t force yourself to like your job if you really don’t like it and most of all: stop eating your words when you really want to say something. This world needs you to say your truth because this world is in definite need of people who feel free and therefore are free.

You actually don’t need to do, feel or say anything you don’t want. Sometimes the people of this world just make it feel like you do. But next time the people of this world want you to do, feel, or make you say something, just think about who really and always has your back:

You.

So who do you do, feel or say anything for?

You.

Thank you so much for reading! 💕

- Juliet